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Posted on 2008-03-16   |   In Uncategorized   |  

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# Self-initiated Reading-and-Reflection (R&R) Exercise


Issue

Companies should offer flexible working conditions to women.


Significant ideas from readings


One of Singapore’s most powerful women, Ms Chua Sock Koong, has revealed how she once felt the sting of workplace sexism. Due to her gender, she was mistaken as the most junior person at a business meeting. The mistake was realised quickly, and someone else prepared the drinks instead.

Working women are certainly better off now, said Ms Chua.

In fact, she believes it is “not impossible” that Singapore may see a woman prime minister “one day” – previously almost unthinkable.

Businesses, however, need to do more to help women maximise their potential, said Ms Chua, named by CNN’s Fortune Magazine as the 15th most powerful female executive in global business last year.

In the global war for talent,** she warned, no organisation can afford to ignore “half the population”. For businesses, this means a meritocratic, “gender-blind**” appraisal system. Companies also need to recognise that women have to juggle many roles – from manager to mother to wife and daughter.

They should have flexible working conditions to allow them to fulfil all these roles as long as it does not hurt their work, she said.

SingTel has tried to do this. For instance, it allows staff to work from home and has also set up onsite childcare facilities.

It even gives mothers five days of family leave per year per child for urgent family matters. These were all measures that Ms Chua had an instrumental role in implementing. While she did not say how successful these measures had been, she noted that 40 per cent of SingTel’s senior management is female. This, for a company in the notoriously male-dominated telecoms industry, is something she is “very proud of”.

While companies need to do their part, this does not give women a free pass to slack, she said.

The future is bright for women who work hard, she said.

Women should also recognise that they may need to prioritise what they want to do at different stages of life, she said. Ms Chua herself quit her previous job, which required frequent overseas travel, to join SingTel, then primarily focused on the Singapore market, so that she could spend more time with her two daughters.

Finally, women should not be too proud to ask bosses, colleagues or family for help. She had benefited from such help, she said.

Unifem board member Karen Ho, who attended the event, agreed with Ms Chua’s remarks.

In Singapore, said Ms Ho, women enjoy a “good baseline”, thanks to equal access to education. While genuine equality is still some way off, she said, “even men have to prioritise… Nobody can have it all”.

Ms Sarah Mavrinac, who runs a non-profit education centre for migrant women, added that women, too, were guilty of stereotyping.

“The presumption of women in subservient roles exists in both men and women’s minds.”


My opinion on the issue

Ms Chua Sock Koong suggests companies to recognize women’s multiple roles in life and offer “flexible working conditions”. I agree with her. Career and family are both important to women. Yet under urgent family matters, for example, when nobody is looking after their sick children at home, women may lose concentration in offices, due to their natural tenderness. Under such circumstance, women tend to work less efficiently and productively if forced to stay in offices. This instance not only causes a loss to companies, but also makes women fail to fulfill their obligations either as employees or mothers. Nevertheless, offering flexible working conditions, such as allowing women to work from home for urgent family matters, rescues women from the above dilemma. Women may return to work more cheerfully and lightheartedly when knowing their beloved ones are well looked after. Thus they may work more devoted and contribute more to companies in the end. Furthermore, such policies make companies sound more humane and sensitive. As a result, more potential capable female employees may be attracted to these companies. Companies will progress faster with the contribution from both male and female talent. I guess this partially explains why 40 per cent of SingTel’s senior management is female.





References:

· Chua Hian Hou, “In war for talent, turning a blind eye to gender is key.” _The Straits Times. _H19. 11 Mar 2008. 16 Mar 2008 <http://newslink.asiaone.com/user/OrderArticleRequest.action?order=&_sourcePage=%2FWEB-INF%2Fjsp%2Fuser%2Fsearch_type_result.jsp&month=03&year=2008&date=11&docLanguage=en&documentId=nica_ST_2008_8312121>.

SIA的胡言乱语

Posted on 2008-03-16   |   In Uncategorized   |  


谁念西风独自凉, 萧萧黄叶闭疏窗。沉思往事立残阳。

被酒莫惊春睡重, 赌书消得泼茶香。当时只道是寻常。

——《浣溪沙》[1]


纳兰性德的原配妻子卢氏,“两广总督、兵部尚书、都察院右副都御史兴祖之女, 赠淑人, 先君卒”[2], 据史料记载, 卢氏“生而婉娈,性本端庄”[3],十八岁嫁给纳兰容若为妻,两人夫妻恩爱,感情笃深,可惜好景不长, 仅仅三年,卢氏就因难产而逝。

这首《浣溪沙》是作者在痛失爱妻之后的悼亡之作。“赌书泼茶”来自于李清照《金石序后序》:“余性偶强记, 每饭罢, 坐归来堂烹茶。指堆积书史, 言其事在某书某卷第几页第几行, 以中否角胜负, 为饮茶先后。中即举杯大笑, 至茶倾覆怀中, 反不饮而起。”[4]作者对此闺房之趣的引用,证明了此词所写为其元配卢氏。而“当时只道是寻常”一句,体现其因未珍惜前人而无奈懊悔之意,由此可推断此词作于卢氏亡后,为悼亡之作。

词的上阙渲染的是悲凉的深秋薄暮, 词人面对凛冽的“西风”、萧索的“黄叶”、如血的“残阳”, 陷入了对于往事的追忆之中, 凄凉的环境, 深沉的孤怨, 使他的满腔愁绪无处发泄, 这时, 昔日夫妻之间琴瑟和谐的种种快乐景象蓦然跃上心头, 这就是下阙所描绘的场景, 词人选择了两幅当年的“寻常”画面:“被酒莫惊春睡重, 赌书消得泼茶香”, 前句表达了词人对妻子的体贴之情, 后一句借用了赵明诚与李清照夫妇间的闺房趣事,从词中可以看出, 词人与卢氏生前也有过类似的乐趣, 只可惜当时没有好好珍惜(“当时只道是寻常”) , 在妻子去世之后, 这往日的寻常生活之事,成为永远不可能再现的遗憾, 两厢对照之下, 词人心中的悲凉凄苦之情何等浓郁, 对于亡妻的怀念追思之心又是何等真挚。[5]

这首词明显地体现纳兰容若的词风。

其一,词人人善用典故。如“赌书消得泼茶香”一句,引用李清照与赵明诚夫妇的闺房之趣,暗示自己与卢氏的伉俪情深。这一段令人羡慕的夫妻生活乐事, 一直被后人传为佳话, 纳兰回忆自己与妻子也有过类似的趣事。只恨当初自己沉浸在幸福之中。近代学者研究纳兰性德的专家张仁政评价说:“观集中自悼亡卢氏后, 伤感怀之作, 缠绵恻怆, 至终身如是, 几无一字一句, 不使人凄然以感也。”

其二,词人善用意象。如“西风”、“黄叶”、“残阳”,体现作者选词别有用心,寥寥几笔,勾勒出一幅荒凉零索的景象,萧瑟伶仃之意顿起,寄予词人哀悼之情。词的上片描绘秋日残阳之景: 独立寒秋, 猎猎的秋风从耳边吹过, 飘零的树叶将窗户都遮住了。作者为读者精心营造出一片萧条之境。这样一幅深秋天气, 自然会引起词人的秋情绪。





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[1]纳兰性德.《纳兰性德词选》. 上海古籍出版社, 2002 年版




[2]纳兰性德.《通志堂集》. 上海古籍出版社, 1979 年版卷十九



[3] 安意如. 《当时只道是寻常》.天津教育出版社,2006年版



[4]李清照, 辛弃疾.《李清照·辛弃疾全集》. 珠海出版社,2001 年第一版, 第31 页



[5]一种相思两处闲愁——试比较纳兰性德与哈代悼亡诗两首 西南大学中国新诗研究所 刘 敏

独言

Posted on 2008-03-14   |   In Uncategorized   |  

时日如梭。

很多想要找时间去做的事,终因心里那个迟些再说的声音而耽搁了。

喜欢幻想未来,于是被爸爸说我不现实。

有时候很想去改变一些事情,然而终究因无能为力而哑然流泪。

容易歇斯底里不顾一切。

会质疑自己每天浑浑噩噩地到底在做什么。

太阳升起又落下去了,我还是没有找到答案。

其实最不切实际最懒散的那个人应该是我吧。

也不知道自己究竟在寻找亦或是追求什么。

盲。茫。忙。

Graces Camp玩游戏时曾被用黑布蒙上双眼。

坐定,满室喧哗。

我只看见心中的世界,那是仅有的一片宁静与黑暗。

全然信赖来人伸出的手,并毫不犹豫地依靠与听从。

原来没有眼睛的生活是这样的。任人摆布。

也许我也只是太空虚了吧。

那些好学生的光环于我何用呢。

终究,静下来,闭上眼的时候,还不是孑然一人。

I love my pencil

Posted on 2008-03-10   |   In Uncategorized   |  

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Posted on 2008-03-10   |   In Uncategorized   |  

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