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I cannot make myself successful alone?

Posted on 2011-02-26   |   In Uncategorized   |  

p.149
Those three things - autonomy, complexity, and a connection between effort and reward - are, most people agree, the three qualities that work has to have if it is to be satisfying. It is not how much money we make that makes us happy between nine and five. It’s whether our work fulfills us.

Work that fulfills those three criteria is meaningful.
Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does not have meaning.

p.192
What was required of Ratwatte was that he communicate, and communicate not just in the sense of issuing commands but also in the sense of encouraging and cajoling and calming and negotiating and sharing information in the clearest and most transparent manner possible.

p. 216
Western communication has what linguists call a “transmitter orientation” - that is, it is considered the responsibility of the speaker to communicate ideas clearly and unambiguously.

But Korea, like many Asian countries, is receiver oriented. It is up to the listener to make sense of what is being said.

p. 220
When we understand what it really means to be a good pilot - when we understand how much culture and history and the world outside of the individual matter to professional success - then we don’t have to throw up our hands in despair at an airline where pilots crash planes into sides of mountains. We have a way to make successes out of the unsuccessful.

Why are we so squeamish? Why is the fact that each of us comes from a culture with its own distinctive mix of strengths and weaknesses, tendencies and predispositions, so difficult to acknowledge? Who we are cannot be separated from where we’re from - and when we ignore that fact, planes crash.

----- OUTLIERS by Malcolm Gladwell

日光之下

Posted on 2011-02-24   |   In Uncategorized   |  

晚饭后去散步,下午下过雨,地面仍然微湿。
沿着linden drive,一路向前。天空仍然阴霾,乌云欺压着不散。
踢着宽大的裙摆,上下台阶,感觉到脚踝的凉意。沾衣欲湿杏花雨,吹面不寒杨柳风。

对自己现下的状态不甚满意。心绪飘忽不由自主,患得患失。不喜欢这样的不踏实感。
乌云渐撤,天空由灰转蓝,点点星光洒在那片湛蓝中。近处是灯光微黄。我看着自己踩在脚下的影子被拉长,缩短,再拉长。路上行车甚少,耳机里BBC一如既往喧嚣。沉默沉默,我的世界刀枪不入百毒不侵。

虫鸣此起彼伏。谁曾倾心于花开的声音。路过一户人家,白色鸡蛋花点缀着越过墙头的枝桠。院子门口摆着整齐的盆栽,土面上铺着一层白色鹅卵石,在昏暗灯光中显得朦胧,像氤氲中的瑰宝。

鸡蛋花原来又叫缅栀子,或是印度素馨,摇身一变就镶上了这样含蓄异域的名字,万种风情。

走得极慢,绕过林登道末端的大回旋路一圈,竟碰到同样绕圈散步的一对年老夫妇三次。爱情不过是如此,在末日黄昏,回想起见证彼此老去的岁月,每日相伴,看华灯初上,暮色四合。即使下一秒将一同牵着手长眠死去,也觉一生无憾。

还是那个最原始而强烈的愿望。想要一个家,有自己的院子,养一条对我温顺对生人凶猛的大狗,摆上秋千,侍弄一院花草,养一缸睡莲。

并无新事。仅此而已。

KISS

Posted on 2011-02-24   |   In Uncategorized   |  

Yangfan,

Listen to your heart. Do not complicate things. You are here in Singapore to learn. You can learn from reading as well as hands-on activities.

Facilitation is a valuable skill. Do not waste your chance to mingle with the experts.

If you have decided to commit yourself to a task, go all the way. Do not hold back.

So. You are going for the outdoor activity this Sat and next Sat. You are going to learn from Nigel and the actual experience as much as possible. You are there to observe. You will not waste your time there. You will enjoy it as much as the rest of the Saturdays which you slept away.

Alright? And don’t complicate things. No point forcing to bring someone else in… Doesn’t worth the effort. Okay?

Keep it simple, sweetheart.

Yours sincerely,
Yangfan

非典型发chun

Posted on 2011-02-23   |   In Uncategorized   |  

她在雷声轰鸣的下午回到房间,拉开窗帘。
风起云涌,一道道闪电劈落,近在眼前,那白光如此耀眼。
她却不知害怕,只是沉醉在自己顾盼间的恍惚中,想起近日破晓前苏醒的失神,那个时常挂在嘴边念叨的名字以及无数个如果TA在就好了的假设。

她清楚地看见心底思念破土而出的嫩芽,脆弱纤细,不堪一击。曾经被伤害,知道依赖另一个同类有多少不确定的因素,就像扎根在风中的蒲公英种子,飘忽不定,惶恐不安。

她需要一个不能提问的答案。她不知道如何征服心中的幻觉。她不知道命运会将她引向哪里。她只是嗅到了寂寞的味道,不想将就,不知如何好。

顾老师发抽纪实

Posted on 2011-02-08   |   In Uncategorized   |  

小顾受刺激了,在房间大吼大叫。。。要NR。。。
“你们去喂天鹅,我在家喂老鼠。”
“我也要去看日出,我也要去喂天鹅,我也要去骑单车。”
“啊。啊。”
她居然,很经典地,很epic地,跟着外头的乌鸦大叫了两声。
我窘死了。我彻头彻尾地被窘死了。

姐姐。。。搞清楚。。。 WJ跟D才是罗曼蒂克。。。
我这里。。。那是纯粹的革命友谊。。。>_<
而且俺没喂成天鹅。。。某人忘了带面包。我们只能看人喂天鹅。。。

窘的~

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